What is hybristophilia?

Hybristophilia: Attraction to Criminals

Hybristophilia, also known as Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome, is a paraphilia characterized by sexual attraction to individuals who have committed crimes. This attraction can manifest in various ways, ranging from intense fantasies to a desire for romantic or sexual relationships with criminals.

There are two main types of hybristophilia:

  • Passive Hybristophilia: This involves being attracted to criminals but not necessarily seeking a relationship with them. Fantasies and arousal are the primary components.
  • Active Hybristophilia: This involves actively pursuing relationships with criminals, often writing letters, sending gifts, or visiting them in prison.

Several potential factors might contribute to the development of Hybristophilia:

  • Fascination with Power and Control: Criminals are often perceived as powerful and in control, which can be attractive to some individuals.
  • Desire to "Fix" or "Save" Someone: Some individuals may believe they can rehabilitate or save a criminal.
  • Thrill Seeking and Risk Taking: The association with a criminal can provide a sense of excitement and danger.
  • Low Self-Esteem: Individuals with low self-esteem may feel undeserving of a "normal" relationship and seek out relationships with criminals who are perceived as being "out of reach."
  • Media Portrayal: The romanticization of criminals in media can contribute to the development of hybristophilia in some individuals.
  • Early Life Experiences: Some studies suggest that negative early childhood experiences, such as abuse or neglect, may contribute to the development of this paraphilia.

It's important to note that having a Fantasy about a criminal does not necessarily mean someone has hybristophilia. For it to be considered a paraphilia, the attraction must be persistent, intense, and cause significant distress or impairment in one's life. Additionally, the paraphilia itself doesn't suggest that someone is a criminal, and attraction doesn't indicate a desire to commit crimes.

There is no one-size-fits-all treatment for hybristophilia. Therapy, such as Cognitive%20Behavioral%20Therapy (CBT), may be helpful in addressing underlying issues and modifying problematic behaviors. In some cases, medication may also be used to manage associated mental health conditions.