What is nhie?

Never Have I Ever (NHIE)

Never Have I Ever, also known as "I've Never...", is a popular party game that involves players revealing experiences they have not had. It's a fun way to learn surprising things about friends and acquaintances.

How to Play:

  1. One person starts as the questioner.
  2. The questioner states something they have not done, starting with "Never have I ever..." (e.g., "Never have I ever been to Europe").
  3. Anyone who has done that thing must take a drink, perform a designated action, or acknowledge the statement in some other way agreed upon beforehand.
  4. The turn then passes to the next person, who comes up with their own "Never have I ever..." statement.
  5. The game continues until players have exhausted their ideas or a predetermined time limit is reached.

Variations:

The specific consequences for having done something mentioned in a "Never Have I Ever" statement vary greatly. Some common variations include:

  • Taking a drink (often with alcohol involved).
  • Performing a forfeit or dare.
  • Losing a point or token.
  • Simply admitting to having done the thing.

Purpose and Appeal:

The appeal of Never Have I Ever lies in its potential for:

  • Icebreaking: It encourages players to share personal experiences.
  • Humor: The revelations can be surprising and funny.
  • Intimacy: It can lead to deeper conversations and connections.
  • Learning: It helps players discover interesting facts about each other.

Things to Consider:

  • Sensitivity: It's important to avoid topics that could be offensive, harmful, or overly personal.
  • Group Dynamic: Adjust the game's content and consequences to suit the group's comfort levels.
  • Honesty: While the game is meant to be fun, it relies on participants being truthful (at least to a reasonable extent).