What is nhie?
Never Have I Ever (NHIE)
Never Have I Ever, also known as "I've Never...", is a popular party game that involves players revealing experiences they have not had. It's a fun way to learn surprising things about friends and acquaintances.
How to Play:
- One person starts as the questioner.
- The questioner states something they have not done, starting with "Never have I ever..." (e.g., "Never have I ever been to Europe").
- Anyone who has done that thing must take a drink, perform a designated action, or acknowledge the statement in some other way agreed upon beforehand.
- The turn then passes to the next person, who comes up with their own "Never have I ever..." statement.
- The game continues until players have exhausted their ideas or a predetermined time limit is reached.
Variations:
The specific consequences for having done something mentioned in a "Never Have I Ever" statement vary greatly. Some common variations include:
- Taking a drink (often with alcohol involved).
- Performing a forfeit or dare.
- Losing a point or token.
- Simply admitting to having done the thing.
Purpose and Appeal:
The appeal of Never Have I Ever lies in its potential for:
- Icebreaking: It encourages players to share personal experiences.
- Humor: The revelations can be surprising and funny.
- Intimacy: It can lead to deeper conversations and connections.
- Learning: It helps players discover interesting facts about each other.
Things to Consider:
- Sensitivity: It's important to avoid topics that could be offensive, harmful, or overly personal.
- Group Dynamic: Adjust the game's content and consequences to suit the group's comfort levels.
- Honesty: While the game is meant to be fun, it relies on participants being truthful (at least to a reasonable extent).