What is enby?

"Enby" is a shortened, informal term for non-binary. Non-binary is an umbrella term encompassing gender identities that are not exclusively male or female. This means that enby individuals don't identify solely as a man or a woman, and their gender identity may fall outside of, between, or beyond the binary.

Some important things to understand about enby people:

• Diversity of Identities: The non-binary umbrella is incredibly diverse. There are many different ways people experience and express their non-binary gender, and there isn't one single "non-binary experience." Some enby individuals may identify with specific non-binary identities like agender, bigender, genderfluid, or others, while others may simply use the term "non-binary" as their primary gender identity.

• Expression: How enby people express their gender varies widely. Some may choose to present in ways traditionally associated with masculinity, femininity, or neither. Their presentation is entirely up to them and doesn't define their gender identity.

• Respectful Language: Using "enby" as a term is generally acceptable within the LGBTQ+ community, but it's always best to ask someone how they prefer to be identified. While "they/them" pronouns are frequently used for non-binary people, it's crucial to respect individual preferences. Some enby individuals may use other pronouns, or even neopronouns (newly coined pronouns). Always ask politely if you are unsure.

• Not a Phase: It's important to recognize that non-binary identities are valid and not simply a phase or a trend. They are genuine and deeply felt aspects of a person's identity.

In short, "enby" is a quick and generally accepted way to refer to a non-binary person, but individual experiences and preferences within the non-binary community are incredibly diverse. Respect and understanding are key to interacting with enby individuals.